How to Find an Awesome Man

How to Find an Awesome Man

 

One of the most frequent comments I hear voiced among (some) women is that there

are not any good available men out there.  I hear this from women coast to coast

in both the real and the virtual world.  I wonder if these women making this

comment would know a good man when he shows up.

 

This article will not address the why of the comments.  This article details how

to be an awesome man.

 

The awesome man is one privileged to be born biologically male who through the

the course of his own personal ambition, education, training, and professional

development has deliberately and by on purpose intention distinguished himself

as one responsibly mature and trustworthy, capable of building and sustaining

relationships and enterprises that are good for him, good for his family, and

good for his community.  This man is awesome and he is everywhere. 

 

The awesome man loves people generally but is passionate about his outstanding

service care and respect for women and children.  He works with community service

projects like Habitat for Humanity, Big Brothers, or after-school tutoring.  This

man is intentionally involved in helping others.  It is part of who he is.  This

man is awesome. 

 

The awesome man seeks ways to enhance his own personal and professional

development.  He reads daily, attends workshops and lectures, takes classes,

and pursues advanced degrees or experiences that will enhance his potential for

greater levels of success and productivity.

 

The awesome man is a spiritual person thankful in personal character whether or

not he is religious in any context.  He is neither egocentric nor obsessed with

his own interests to the exclusion of the interests of others.  He accepts that

a power greater than all of humanity and especially greater than him has set

life and the activities of life into motion and he respects that power. 

 

The awesome man is a joy to his friends and acquaintances.  He makes being around

him fun.  He seeks to make others feel good about who they are and is available

when they need the shoulder of a friend to lean on.  The awesome man cares about

other people and demonstrates it at all times.

 

The awesome man seeks a mate that will compliment him and be a quality partner in

life in parenting and building a family. Raymond Huse spoke of this man that once

married and dedicated to the well being of his family in his 1920 Classic,

“Theology of a Modern Methodist”.

 

Heights by the great ones reach and kept were not attained by sudden flight but

they while their companions slept toiled upward in the night.

 

Once married and committed to his family for life, the awesome man works hard to

make sure and knows that his family is secure and is well provided for.  He wants

to know that all things necessary for the love and care of his family are in place.  He 

wants to know that all are well nurtured, clothed, fed, housed, and encouraged.  This

is an awesome man.  He takes care of his business by priority and his family is first 

among his priorities.

 

For the women who say there are not any good men out there, this is worthy of

consideration.  Good men, awesome men are involved in life, love, and service

activities.  Find out where these activities are taking place and good men will

be found.

 

The awesome man is one privileged to be born biologically male who through the

the course of his own personal ambition, education, training, and professional

development has deliberately and by on purpose intention distinguished himself

as one responsibly mature and trustworthy, capable of building and sustaining

relationships and enterprises that are good for him, good for his family, and

good for his community.  This man is awesome and he is everywhere.  

Oscar Crawford

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